but also the opportunity
DEMOCRATIC AND AUTHORITIVE STYLES OF EDUCATION
The process of family education is a comprehensive system of parental attitudes aimed at the child. Its goal is to prepare children for independent life in society. Without a doubt, every loving parent feels the burden of responsibility for the future of their own child. He also understands how difficult it can sometimes be to control the process of growing up. If you show excessive softness – the son or daughter ceases to obey. If stiffness, then goes into itself. How to find a middle ground?
Psychologists distinguish four types of relationships between parents and children. Educational systems are scientifically called democratic, authoritarian, indifferent and liberal. Families rarely have a particular style. More often, parents use a combination of techniques that affect the development of children differently. Dictatorship and cooperation are the most likely relationships, according to psychologists. Continue reading
YOUR CHILD IS AFRAID OF SPEAKING PUBLIC?
In the family circle, the child is so lively: he fervently sings into an imaginary microphone, portrays the characters of his favorite cartoons. And with strangers it closes, hesitates to recite a memorized poem in front of the class. Why is this happening? How to help young talents overcome fear and feel confident in a circle of strangers?
Dear adults, to begin with, answer honestly: Does public speaking cause you any discomfort? It is possible that yes. There are two reasons: lack of skill and panic fear. The more often you practice this, the better it turns out, but fear must be learned to overcome.
Fear of public speaking is an absolutely normal phenomenon that often makes its own life adjustments. Continue reading
WHEN YOU CAN AND DO NOT SCREAM
Can I yell at a child? Note that the scream is different. Take Italian families: any, even everyday issues, temperamental southerners discuss at high decibels. Italians do not hide emotions, but turning to a cry, they do not affect the feelings of the opponent. In their cry there are no insults and aggression, especially in relation to children. The situation is the same in families of emotional choleric, where a slightly increased parental tone in the address of the baby is quite normal. In turn, a grown child can also respond with an emotional outburst, defending his point of view. An apple from an apple tree, as they say, falls not far. But there are still kids. Should I yell at a small child? Consider the situation in more detail.
WHY SHOULD NOT SCREAM ON CHILDREN?
Parents need to know why you can not scream at the child. A cry is a method of imposing fear, but not of authority. Fright and respect are two different things. The child is afraid that they will shout at him again, and because of this he carries out instructions. Continue reading
