HOW TO GROW A SUCCESSFUL MAN
Raising a successful child is the desire of all mothers and fathers. All parents dream that their children will be healthy, happy and successful. But if everything is clear with the first two points, then how to determine whether a child is successful or not? For some parents, success is admission to a prestigious university, and for others, financial stability. Someone dreams that the child could just do what he likes without thinking about his daily bread.
This is not to say that parents who put school and work in the first place are right, and those who care exclusively about the spiritual comfort of the child are mistaken. Only you know your child and understand all his aspirations. And we know what needs to be done right now so that he enters into adulthood a confident and self-sufficient person. We will share this knowledge with you. After all, parents should know how to raise a successful child.
HOW TO TRAIN A SUCCESSFUL MAN?
To raise a successful child, you need to try. All parents can be divided into 2 groups. The former understand the importance of personality development from early childhood and are ready to do everything to help the child reach their full potential. Want to know if you belong to them? Imagine that your daughter was seriously interested in drawing and was devoting more and more time to her favorite pastime. What you will do: invite the child to attend a thematic circle or leave it as it is, they say, this is all nonsense. If you help develop a hobby – you are in the first group, if not – in the second.
Parents from the second group impress people who just go with the flow. Unfortunately, often they approach the upbringing of children with the same lethargy. The daughter draws – well, well, then she gets tired. Math is difficult for his son – and who needs it at all? Keep in mind that with this approach, in most cases you can immediately forget about the success of the child. What kind of success is it if, from childhood, a small person is not guided and supported?
Of course, if the child is fed and warmed, this is already good. But this is not enough to form a model for a happy future. You should invest all your love in the child, and it should not be limited to caring for health and food. This is just a small part of what you can give! Here is a short memo for parents.
I love my child, and that means:
I care about his health and well-being;
I worry about him and help to develop comprehensively;
show how interesting the world is around;
I support in the pursuit of my favorite business and help to deal with failures.
Japanese scientists conducted a series of studies and proved that for the success of a child, parents need only 2 things – support and spending time together. This is enough to formulate the basic principles of raising a child, and then he will be able to grow up a harmonious and successful person.
WHAT QUALITIES A SUCCESSFUL CHILD MUST POSSESS?
The skill of a worthy reaction to defeats and the ability to learn the right lessons from them.
Independent decision making.
Good communication skills, support for others.
Knowledge of time management.
Healthy optimism and ability to think positively. Respond flexibly to changing circumstances.
Self-confidence and courage to take responsibility for committed acts.
Psychological and physical health, they will help achieve your goals.
WHAT SHOULD I DO FOR THE CHILD TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN THE FUTURE?
Children’s pyramid of needs:
I do what I do better.
Parents reckon with my opinion.
My family loves me.
I am completely safe, my parents will protect me.
It’s convenient for me: I eat well, sleep and do not freeze.
Satisfying the needs of the child, do not forget that nevertheless he is a person. Do not impose your opinion, decide everything for him and, all the more, try to realize your unfulfilled desires with the help of a child. If you have dreamed of doing ballet since childhood, and your daughter likes to draw, you don’t need to pull on her pointes and drive her to workout. Your task is to develop precisely her inclinations and talents, and not to drive the child into the rigid framework of their own ideas about what is good and what is bad.
How to help your child become successful? A child is a tree that will bear fruit only when you create favorable conditions for growth and flowering.