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EDUCING A CHILD: DIFFERENT RESPONSIBILITIES FOR DAD AND MOM

Parenting is the most important task of parents. But it often happens that mom and dad have different approaches to this matter. Each of them has their own opinion on how to make a child’s life successful and prosperous. Hence the distribution of responsibilities.

The site www.thebabywebsite.com conducted a study. Specialists interviewed 3,000 moms and dads to find out what each couple should do. The survey results were as follows:

Parenting: different responsibilities for dad and mom

MOTOR RESPONSIBILITIES:
cooking breakfast, lunch, dinner;
preparing children for school;
purchase of food and clothing;
washing and cleaning;
prevention and vaccination of the child;
care for sick children;
purchase of gifts and toys;
organization of holidays.
DUTIES OF THE DAD:
mending toys;
inventing new games;
cycling training;
swimming training;
game in the constructor;
reading fairy tales;
help with homework.
Of course, there are families in which there is no distribution of responsibilities as such. Both mom and dad do the same thing, just one at a time. But sometimes, even when assigning separate functions to each parent, conflicts between them can arise in matters of upbringing. In this case, you need to be patient and keep the peace in your relationship. The Newfeld Institute specialists give some tips:

No need to behave the same. Opposites are said to be attracted. Different outlooks on life will help the child look at the world from all sorts of sides. Children copy parental behavior. Having various examples in front of him, the child will choose the type that he likes best. But it is necessary that at least one parent openly expresses their feelings, so that the baby has someone to come to cry and talk about their problems. If he encounters a wall of misunderstanding on the part of both parents, it will be difficult for him to cope with mental torment, he will cease to trust you, and there will be a discord in the family.
Parenting: different responsibilities for dad and mom

No need to scold a partner with a child. Sometimes a conflict occurs between one parent and a baby. No need to openly side with the child, and spouse (s) to report. Otherwise, the son or daughter will have the impression that “mom protects me, and dad is bad.” Or vice versa. Better to say: “Yes, you’re right, but dad / mom is upset (a) and a little angry. Let’s solve the problem later, when everyone calms down. ” And then parents should talk in private with each other and figure out what to do so that such situations do not happen again.
Help your partner deal with the consequences of conflicts. A quarrel in the family is commonplace. Often, misunderstanding arises between children and parents. The task of one of the spouses is to help the other reconcile with the child. After the scandal, the children immediately think that mom or dad stopped loving them. It is necessary to convince the baby of the opposite. The role of the mother in raising a child is not only to help the baby to become a bright and educated person, but also to explain to him after the conflict that dad still loves him, and their quarrel is caused only by concern for him.
Parenting: different responsibilities for dad and mom

Tell each other practical discoveries in the field of education. Now on the shelves of bookstores there are many manuals and teaching materials on the topic of parenting. But at all times, practice was better than theory. Do not swear among themselves and say that in such a book I read (a) that it is better to do so-and-so. It is worthwhile to explain by your own example under what circumstances the baby obeys, and under what not. The role of dad in raising a child also consists in supporting the mother and helping her in this difficult matter.
You should not control the relationship of the partner and the child. Some of the spouses think that they know better how to behave with children, and how to talk to them. But there is no need to interfere in the personal space of mom and baby. And vice versa. Dad and child can also have their own secrets, and do not put pressure on both, trying to find out what they are hiding. Release control and observe the behavior of family members. Then you will see that even without your participation they can cope. Even if mom or dad makes mistakes, do not point out them. An adult man will cope with everything. Better support him, but prove your case.

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