FATHER IS HUSBAND OF MY MOM
Many working parents complain that they do not have enough time to fully communicate with their children. Psychologists are sure – this is nothing more than excuses and adults simply do not know how to prioritize. As a rule, husbands in families play the role of a breadwinner and consider it their main duty to provide for their families financially – the more they bring money to the house, the better they fulfill their duties.
In such families, usually a woman is fully engaged in children from physical needs to heart-to-heart talks. Many men consider upbringing exclusively female occupation. Continue reading
7 YEAR CRISIS AS ANOTHER DEVELOPMENT DEVELOPMENT
We are used to taking the word “crisis” in a negative way. However, adhering to positive thinking, one can read the interpretation in a completely neutral sense. This is a turning point, a transitional moment or, when it comes to growing up a child, is the next stage of development.
The transitional stage between preschool age and the first textbooks plays a very important role in the development of the child and its formation as an independent person. During this period, a certain misunderstanding between children and parents is characteristic, since during this particular stage the child begins to consciously adopt the features of parental behavior, try specific social roles. This, in turn, requires patience and emotional flexibility from parents. Moms and dads should know how to overcome the crisis of 7 years, what to do and how to cope with it. Continue reading
DEMOCRATIC AND AUTHORITIVE STYLES OF EDUCATION
The process of family education is a comprehensive system of parental attitudes aimed at the child. Its goal is to prepare children for independent life in society. Without a doubt, every loving parent feels the burden of responsibility for the future of their own child. He also understands how difficult it can sometimes be to control the process of growing up. If you show excessive softness – the son or daughter ceases to obey. If stiffness, then goes into itself. How to find a middle ground?
Psychologists distinguish four types of relationships between parents and children. Educational systems are scientifically called democratic, authoritarian, indifferent and liberal. Families rarely have a particular style. More often, parents use a combination of techniques that affect the development of children differently. Dictatorship and cooperation are the most likely relationships, according to psychologists. Continue reading
YOUR CHILD IS AFRAID OF SPEAKING PUBLIC?
In the family circle, the child is so lively: he fervently sings into an imaginary microphone, portrays the characters of his favorite cartoons. And with strangers it closes, hesitates to recite a memorized poem in front of the class. Why is this happening? How to help young talents overcome fear and feel confident in a circle of strangers?
Dear adults, to begin with, answer honestly: Does public speaking cause you any discomfort? It is possible that yes. There are two reasons: lack of skill and panic fear. The more often you practice this, the better it turns out, but fear must be learned to overcome.
Fear of public speaking is an absolutely normal phenomenon that often makes its own life adjustments. Continue reading
TEACH CHILDREN NOT TO HID EMOTIONS
Young children of two years old are not shy to express their feelings. When a baby laughs sincerely and fervently, even the most serious adult cannot hold back a smile. As they grow older, many of them lose their ability to express emotions for a number of reasons: they are shy, afraid, think that this is the way a polite person should behave. This mainly concerns feelings of negative color. Many people mistakenly believe that in ideal families people do not swear. Unexpressed emotions have a cumulative effect, given that the reserve of the nervous system is limited, as a result of the accumulation of negativity, nervous tension and even depression occur. So how to express emotions?
WHAT IS EMOTION?
Emotion is a process of the psyche of short duration, which reflects an assessment of a situation, a person or an object. Emotions consist of three components: Continue reading
